Day 42 of my 30 day trial :D

by Crystal on December 16, 2008

This entry is part 7 of 7 in the series early rising

I realised the other day that my 30 day trial was actually at day 37.  Oops.  Anyway, here’s my wrapup, even if it did take me to day 42 to get there…

Getting up early is set in as a habit now.  Although initially I was going to sleep in on weekends, that became uncomfortable by around week 3, so my compromise was that I’d always wake up early (somewhere between 3 and 4.30), but that if it was a weekend I could go back to bed until 6 – so long as I got up and did at least one thing first.  That way it didn’t feel like I was breaking the chain.

I also discovered that movement and light first thing are absolute keys to this.  At the end, when my phone alarm went off with a catchy tune, I’d either jump up or at worst do some form of seated dancing.  It’s a short tune, so maybe a minute of this, but the difference it made to how awake I felt and how late I got tired again was amazing.  Also, turning on the lights.  If you’re getting up after the sun, use that, if not, turn on every light you can find, even if it’s just for ten minutes.  That’s enough for your brain to start churning out those “it’s daytime now, sleepyhead” hormones that stop you going back to sleep.  Temporarily at least.

There were some tough days where I ended up staying late, getting to bed anywhere between 10.30 and 1.30am, but even if I intended to let myself sleep in, the habit kicked in and I woke up anyway.  That’s not a bad thing – afternoon naps are a handy compromise – but it shows how powerful habits can be, I think.

Anyway, the final list of “How to Get Up Early” Tips is:

  • Routine/Habits.  First thing in the morning, I chant “ABCDE” – A is for “Arise” (ie get up instantly, see below); B is for “Bed” (make it, so you can’t climb back in); C is for “Clean” (Shower etc); D is for “Dress” and E is for “Eat”.  Sometimes I do things differently, but I never change the first two, so they’re programmed to automatic – by the time I’m awake enough to think, they’re done.  That’s the trick, really – train yourself to react instantly to the alarm and you’ll be standing up with an already made bed before your mind gets up enough to beg for five more minutes.  At that stage, it’s easy to say no.
  • Planning.  Have as much laid out as you can the night before, but also know exactly what you intend to do first when you get up.  This is similar to the last one – you want to be able to move straight into doing it without having to think, because for the first little while, even though you’re standing up and moving around, your brain will still be in neutral (or even reverse)!
  • Light.  Your brain tells you to wake up via hormones, which it starts sending out when it gets light.  Look out the window, or if you can afford it, get a dawn simulator alarm clock.  I can tell you, my boyfriend hates mine, because it’s all but impossible to sleep through – even without noise!  (It also makes daylight saving a LOT easier).  Mine is the Lumie Bodyclock.
  • Go easy on food & drink the night before.  You don’t want to go to bed on a full stomach, and you definitely don’t want coffee or alcohol in your system, or you won’t sleep deeply enough to rest properly.  I accidentally gave up coffee shortly after I started this, and I’ve noticed I’m sleeping much better without it.  Even if you don’t want to go that far, give yourself at least 5 hrs without it before you go to bed the night before, and finish your eating off at least 3 hours before, so there’s no digestion or stimulation going on.
  • If you have to get up early, but can’t get to bed 8 hours beforehand, try to fit in a half hour “nanna nap” the day before.  You’d be surprised how much it helps.  If you can, allow for one in the afternoon you’ve had to get up for, to catch yourself up a bit.  No more than an hour, but half an hour is best.
  • Still feeling drowsy?  An apple is supposed to be a better wake-up aid than a cup of coffee.  I’ve tried it, and yes, it does work better.  The other trick to get the brain cells going when the yawns set in is to find a quiet place and bounce up and down for 30 seconds.  Sounds stupid, I know, but just try it and you’ll be surprised…
  • You can actually pre-program more than just your alarm clock to help you wake.  When you get into bed and turn out the lights, tell yourself (silently to yourself is fine) that you’re now going to sleep deeply and well, and will wake up full of energy before the alarm goes off.  Alternatively, you can put in that you’ll wake up full of energy at xxx o’clock.  It actually works for me.
  • If you know ahead of time how much earlier you have to get up, you can gradually train yourself into it by getting up a bit earlier each day.  I had an early start this week, so I spent 3 days getting up earlier: 4.30am (my usual, now), 4am, 3.30am and then on the day, 3am.  I wasn’t nearly as wrecked this time as I usually am.  Of course, now I find myself waking up with a ‘usual’ time closer to 4 o’clock, but that’s ok, gives me even more time to do my stuff before I go (I’m even fitting exercise in, now!  ok, maybe only sometimes, but still…)
  • A lot of people over at the digital point forums swear by drinking lots of water before you go to bed.  Then nature takes care of getting you up.  I like to have a drink anyway, because you dehydrate a lot overnight.  Plus I leave a glass of water by the bed and drink it as soon as I’m up (after A and B: see above).  Not sure if that helps with waking me up, it’s just a habit of mine.
  • Another digital point gem is to have the alarm clock as far away from the bed as possible, so you have to get up to switch it off.  I’ve used this one in the past, and it can work – but only so long as you don’t get up, switch it off, and crawl back under the covers.  Which I’ve also done, although not on this trial, and not (much) since I got the Bodyclock.
  • Besides my dawn simulator, there are all kinds of new variations on the traditional alarm clock that are meant to make it harder to switch off.  There are ones that move around so you have to chase them from under the bed (try going back to sleep after that!), helicopter type ones that have a flying bit you need to retrieve, a hanging one that retracts towards the ceiling every time you snooze it, and even a Rubiks cube one that won’t shut up until you solve it (I’d be stuffed, although there are You-Tube videos on how to solve a rubiks that make it look easy)
  • Having a very clear reason why you want to get up at that time helps, especially when you know you couldn’t leave it any later.  Trying to cheat the system by setting the alarm for half an hour before I had to get up usually meant I snoozed it for a half an hour, until the REAL deadline came up.  So, having a clear reason why is another one.
  • Knowing the main thing you want to accomplish with your early time was a great start to the day.  Not sure how much it helped cement the habit, but it definitely helped with the motivation side of things.  After all, when you get a great feeling out of doing something that wouldn’t otherwise have been done, before the day (and the rest of the world) has even started, you’re not going to resist getting up again as much as pushing yourself to do it cold, with no positive associations.
  • I tried stretching first thing, like Steve Pavlina recommends, but found it didn’t work as well for me (maybe because I was still horizontal in bed) as jumping up and getting active.  My phone alarm tune was a catchy one, so I’d dance to that until it turned off, and it made a big difference.
  • Lights.  I know I already mentioned this one, but it turned out to be critical.  So much so, that when I had to get up particularly early (3am) I’d also have the lounge light put on timer to turn on, and the first thing I did after my little dance was flick several lights on.  It really, really helped.

So, there’s my summary.  This new habit has been responsible for most (if not all) of the new posts making it to you since I started back on Nov 5, and it’s well and truly set now.  In the interests of full disclosure, my boyfriend does hate it when I wake up, get up, and he doesn’t get a snuggle to wake up to himself, but we worked out a compromise, and I pre-warn him that’s going to happen.

Next up, I’ve got to do a post on how going coffee-free has changed things.  In one word – surprisingly!  Stay tuned, that’ll probably come saturday.

PS The picture is one I took on my trip to work, which I photoblogged a while ago under “Prettiest Commute” – this is a more recent photo than that set, but it is a gorgeous view, isn’t it?

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How NOT to wake up early! Oops!

by Crystal on December 7, 2008

This entry is part 6 of 7 in the series early rising

Im not the only one!

I'm not the only one! (mine buttoned all down the front...)

After I’m not sure how many days now (pick the sleep deprivation setting in after a weekend staying up with my boyfriend) the other day I got up ahead of the alarm, as is now usual, just after 3am. Got stuck into writing & managing my online stuff, also as usual. Got out the door and down to the bus in time for the 5am trip, chatted with the driver. Got to train station, stopped in at a shop and grabbed a drink to take with me, then waited about 20m on the platform for my train to arrive. It takes just under an hour from that point to the station I get off at. TEN MINUTES before we pulled in, I realised that none of the buttons down the front of my shirt were showing.  After a bit of a double take, it clicked as to why.

I was wearing it inside out.

Not one person so far had noticed or said anything.  Actually, it’s hard to say whether they noticed or not but they definitely hadn’t been looking (you know the sideways glances when there’s something not quite right? Seen them before, didn’t see them this time) and not a single word was said.

So I decided to conduct a little social experiment.  I wondered whether nobody noticed because I’d been walking around so blissfully unaware, and had high levels of confidence.  I left it inside out.

Got off, walked through the crowds at the station, walked down the road, nodding hi and catching the eyes of everyone I met.  Walked into work, again saying hello to everyone I met, head held high.  Got to my desk, put my bag down and ducked out to the ladies room – again exchanging words with everyone I met.

Guess what – not a single person noticed.  I even came back with it the other way around and still no-one saw that it was any different.

So: the moral of the story – if you’re doing something different, hold your head high and act as though it’s perfectly normal, and you’re more than likely going to get away with it!!!

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How I (accidentally) gave up coffee

by Crystal on November 29, 2008

This entry is part 5 of 7 in the series early rising

Coffee is a drug and up until 3 weeks ago, I was an addict.

I was planning on giving myself a couple of weeks without it, so I could get to the point where I was having it from choice again, but since I was doing a 30 day trial of getting up (very) early, I thought it would be better to wait until after that finished.  Except…

One of my blogging idols is Steve Pavlina.  I love getting his latest post in my rss reader (google), and at the moment I’ve been following him on a Juice Feasting trial – no solid foods at all.  Two days into my early rising routine, I opened his post and read about how strange it was to be using coffee as part of his cleansing routine.  He wasn’t drinking it.  He hasn’t drunk it in quite some time, it seems.  (Look for the 3rd Subheading down.)  Anyway, he made the comment in his post about coffee being a natural form of pesticide, designed to interfere with the nervous systems of anything that ate it.  I thought that was incredibly funny, since that self defence has turned it into a cultivated crop, but over the next few days every time I looked at or thought about coffee, my mind was calling it pesticide.  I even joked about going to get a cup of pesticide.

It didn’t take long, and I started noticing I wasn’t feeling particularly keen on getting it anymore.  After I went two days without it, unintentionally, I figured I might as well bite the bullet and keep going.  That was over 3 weeks ago now.

The one single time I was tempted back towards it was when I realised that no coffee also meant no Irish Coffee – one of my favourite flu cures (it’ll kill anything, I reckon).  Twitter came to the rescue, though, with someone mentioning trying grand marnier in chai – I realised it didn’t have to be coffee to be an alcoholic hot drink.

So, three weeks down the track, what have I noticed and learnt?

  • I’m losing weight.  I can’t say how much, but my clothes are getting noticeably looser.  I haven’t actually jumped on the scales to check, though, since that wasn’t the point when I started.
  • I’m sleeping better than ever, and have been since about day 3.
  • I’m not wanting as much dairy as I used to, and even my cheese addiction seems to be backing off
  • I’m wanting more healthy foods – my preferences are changing
  • I’ve discovered that most cafes have lots of alternatives, and I’m developing a taste for green tea, so I can still meet up with friends.
  • Having a bottle of juice in the morning – especially pineapple based – is often a better pick me up

In short, I haven’t actually found any drawbacks for giving it up.  I imagine there’d be social situations where it might make things a bit awkward – it’s a very accepted habit – but I haven’t found any yet.

PS – did just realise it means no tiramisu for dessert, but I’m feeling strangely undisturbed by that!

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This entry is part 4 of 7 in the series early rising

The greenish warbler demonstrates the concept ...

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Can’t believe it’s been almost 3 weeks of dark starts!  And I’ve still got new tricks to try…

I’ve discovered something weird.  If I let myself sleep in after a late night, it isn’t the next morning that I have trouble getting up – it’s the one after!  That’s twice now I’ve done it, and 2 days later had the fight of my life against the doona and the alarm clock!

I stayed up really late on Friday, because I got stuck into some

interesting stuff.  Saturday morning (around 1.30am) I got to bed, and then at 4.30 I hit snooze.  Next thing I knew it was 9.30.  I got up, but found my energy was off all day, and I was really tired by evening.  I got an early night, and woke around 4 again, thinking all was back to being right with the world.  Not so.  Monday morning I really struggled to drag myself up, and even though I did, I was tired most of the day.

Come to think of it, not much went right on Monday.  I even ended up knocking off early because I just wanted the day to be done with at work.  This morning, getting myself to work (no lift today) and aiming for the 5am bus, I set my alarm, but for some reason I didn’t wake until the second alarm – to tell me to get ready for work – went off.  I thought maybe the lightbulb had blown, but I just tested it and it’s still working, so I must have just slept through light, sound and all! (It’s a dawn simulator alarm clock.)  I did wake up around 2.30 for a toilet break and went back to bed, but I’ve done that before and still got up ok.  Strange.

On the bright side, waking up late (it seems ridiculous to say that about 4:15am, somehow) meant that I had to decide very quickly what was the single most important thing I wanted to accomplish with my morning session – and then knuckle down and do it.  That started the day off with a great sense of accomplishment, and it just seemed to go really well from there.  I think this is going to be a new habit – set the single biggest thing in advance, and go straight for it.

Sleeping Cat

Image by dominiqs81 via Flickr

I also, finally, checked out what Steve Pavlina had to say about getting up early.  A lot of it I’m already doing, like accidentally giving up coffee, but one thing I’m going to try from tomorrow is spending a couple of seconds first thing just on stretching.  I like that idea.  Cats make it a big part of their sleep/wake routine, and I can’t think of a species more qualified on the topic of naps, can you?

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How to Wake up Early: Day 16

by Crystal on November 22, 2008

This entry is part 3 of 7 in the series early rising

April_Sunrise_2

Image by shoebappa via Flickr

Day 16, and I’m now waking up early even on the weekends.  Loving how much more I can get done in the silent hours – although today there’s a gale outside so it’s not so silent.  Still, there’s something about the time before the sun – and everyone else – gets up.  It’s strangely addictive.

I’ve discovered one more trick since I compiled the list for my last post, and am re-sharing two more gems of wisdom from a forum on the topic.

So, here’s the new, amended list:

  • Routine/Habits.  First thing in the morning, I chant “ABCDE” – A is for “Arise” (ie get up instantly, see below); B is for “Bed” (make it, so you can’t climb back in); C is for “Clean” (Shower etc); D is for “Dress” and E is for “Eat”.  Sometimes I do things differently, but I never change the first two, so they’re programmed to automatic – by the time I’m awake enough to think, they’re done.  That’s the trick, really – train yourself to react instantly to the alarm and you’ll be standing up with an already made bed before your mind gets up enough to beg for five more minutes.  At that stage, it’s easy to say no.
  • Planning.  Have as much laid out as you can the night before, but also know exactly what you intend to do first when you get up.  This is similar to the last one – you want to be able to move straight into doing it without having to think, because for the first little while, even though you’re standing up and moving around, your brain will still be in neutral (or even reverse)!
  • Light.  Your brain tells you to wake up via hormones, which it starts sending out when it gets light.  Look out the window, or if you can afford it, get a dawn simulator alarm clock.  I can tell you, my boyfriend hates mine, because it’s all but impossible to sleep through – even without noise!  (It also makes daylight saving a LOT easier).  Mine is the Lumie Bodyclock.
  • Go easy on food & drink the night before.  You don’t want to go to bed on a full stomach, and you definitely don’t want coffee or alcohol in your system, or you won’t sleep deeply enough to rest properly.  I accidentally gave up coffee shortly after I started this, and I’ve noticed I’m sleeping much better without it.  Even if you don’t want to go that far, give yourself at least 5 hrs without it before you go to bed the night before, and finish your eating off at least 3 hours before, so there’s no digestion or stimulation going on.
  • If you have to get up early, but can’t get to bed 8 hours beforehand, try to fit in a half hour “nanna nap” the day before.  You’d be surprised how much it helps.  If you can, allow for one in the afternoon you’ve had to get up for, to catch yourself up a bit.  No more than an hour, but half an hour is best.
  • Still feeling drowsy?  An apple is supposed to be a better wake-up aid than a cup of coffee.  I’ve tried it, and yes, it does work better.  The other trick to get the brain cells going when the yawns set in is to find a quiet place and bounce up and down for 30 seconds.  Sounds stupid, I know, but just try it and you’ll be surprised…

…and now for the new stuff

  • You can actually pre-program more than just your alarm clock to help you wake.  When you get into bed and turn out the lights, tell yourself (silently to yourself is fine) that you’re now going to sleep deeply and well, and will wake up full of energy before the alarm goes off.  Alternatively, you can put in that you’ll wake up full of energy at xxx o’clock.  It actually works for me.
  • If you know ahead of time how much earlier you have to get up, you can gradually train yourself into it by getting up a bit earlier each day.  I had an early start this week, so I spent 3 days getting up earlier: 4.30am (my usual, now), 4am, 3.30am and then on the day, 3am.  I wasn’t nearly as wrecked this time as I usually am.  Of course, now I find myself waking up with a ‘usual’ time closer to 4 o’clock, but that’s ok, gives me even more time to do my stuff before I go (I’m even fitting exercise in, now!  ok, maybe only sometimes, but still…)
  • A lot of people over at the digital point forums swear by drinking lots of water before you go to bed.  Then nature takes care of getting you up.  I like to have a drink anyway, because you dehydrate a lot overnight.  Plus I leave a glass of water by the bed and drink it as soon as I’m up (after A and B: see above).  Not sure if that helps with waking me up, it’s just a habit of mine.
  • Another digital point gem is to have the alarm clock as far away from the bed as possible, so you have to get up to switch it off.  I’ve used this one in the past, and it can work – but only so long as you don’t get up, switch it off, and crawl back under the covers.  Which I’ve also done, although not on this trial, and not (much) since I got the Bodyclock.
  • Besides my dawn simulator, there are all kinds of new variations on the traditional alarm clock that are meant to make it harder to switch off.  There are ones that move around so you have to chase them from under the bed (try going back to sleep after that!), helicopter type ones that have a flying bit you need to retrieve, a hanging one that retracts towards the ceiling every time you snooze it, and even a Rubiks cube one that won’t shut up until you solve it (I’d be stuffed, although there are You-Tube videos on how to solve a rubiks that make it look easy)
  • Writing this, it occurs to me that the main difference between those times I got up and the times I crawled back under, was that I had a very clear reason why I wanted to get up at that time, and I knew I couldn’t leave it any later.  Trying to cheat the system by setting it for half an hour before I had to get up usually meant I snoozed it for a half an hour, until the REAL deadline came up.  So, having a clear reason why is another one.

Being a weekend, and having stayed up late last night with the other half, he wanted me to stay in bed this morning, but I decided that having worked so hard to create this habit, I was going to keep it alive and get up anyway.  Nothing stopping me from going back for a snooze later if I need it, but that habit is the thing that makes it easiest in the morning.

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Early Rising Day 7 – Surprising Results

by Crystal on November 12, 2008

This entry is part 2 of 7 in the series early rising

Day 7 of my Early-Rising 30 day trial already!

Last night I decided 4.30 wasn’t early enough, since I was having to cram all my stuff into only half an hour or less by the time I took out getting ready (I usually leave before 6), and I’ve not had time to write full posts.  So this morning it was 4:15.  I’m starting to actually enjoy the early starts.  I’ve been posting short updates at Twitter, and discovered a few days back that the trick to getting up, for me at least, is to train the body to just jump straight up as soon as the alarm goes off – that way I’m already standing & making the bed by the time the mind gets awake enough to go “hang on, what about 5 more minutes?”.  By then, it’s easy to ignore.

After the first few days, and especially allowing myself to go later on the weekend, another side benefit is that self-discipline is improving – and that helps out in all kinds of other areas of my life. I’m also getting through some of the changes to the site I’ve been wanting to make for a while.  Feel free to look around, or check out my twitter-stream for the short, sharp version of the trial.

A surprising side effect has been that after reading Steve Pavlina’s explanation of coffee, a side note in his Juice Feasting post, and how it’s a natural pesticide designed to disrupt the nervous system, I had intended to do at least 7 days without it – but later in the year, after I’d got used to early starts.  Well, that didn’t work.  I found myself not particularly wanting to drink it, thinking of it as “a cup of pesticide” and when I got part way through my 3rd day of not wanting it, decided just to bite the bullet and continue.  Today is day 5 without coffee.  I did have a shocker of a headache yesterday afternoon – so much so that my boss noticed & suggested I head off early – but am feeling better today.  I’m also getting through a lot more water, and finding that having juice of a morning – especially pineapple juice – makes for a much better start to the day.

Anyway, I’ve cheated slightly, doing this before my Simpleology Daily Target Praxis (DTP) so I’m heading off there to write my priorities down & get stuck in…

Oops!  My second alarm just went off.  That’s it for this morning then, got to go get ready for work.  Where does the time fly to?  As a side note, I’m definitely also learning to value it more highly, and getting a lot stronger sense of focus when I do set time aside.  I think that’s going to pay off hugely long-term too.  I’m still perfecting how to use it best though – although the DTP helps (when I don’t cheat and do something before it).  Anyway, I’m off.  catch you later!

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Weekend and 30 day trial update

by Crystal on November 8, 2008

This entry is part 1 of 7 in the series early rising

Yesterday I had my day off (which was my reward for meeting all my targets at my last mastermind call).  I had fun, relaxing and reading Book 4 of the “Wheel of Time” series by Robert Jordan.  Actually, re-reading.  I’ve been going through books 1-3 over the last week or so, so it’s good revisiting the series.  Only found out the other day that Robert Jordan actually died last September, before the series was finished, so they’ve had to choose someone else to finish it.  Should be interesting to see how the final one pans out!

Today I didn’t exactly get stuck into my stuff first thing – it’s due to rain today so I grabbed the chance to hang washing out, did a few house-holdy type things first, but I’m only writing this after having done my checks (must create a dashboard at some stage) and put together my “About this site” page for anyone looking to find out how to re-create any of the effects here.  I know from another site I’ve worked on that the posts I put up with technical how-to were the most popular, and I’ve been frustrated many times trying to hunt down how someone’s done something on their own blog.  So, in line with the new “useful” philosophy I’ve created a sub-page for my “about” page and put it all up there.  It would be lovely if the movement caught on!

Now, I’d really like to find out what else people would find useful.  According to google, after searching for my domain name, the next most popular phrase was “meringue animals” from a photo I posted after my trip to South Australia (there were some really cute ones in a store window).  While I could hunt down a recipe for them, it’s not really in line with the purpose I’m setting here, so I’m going to be setting up a poll on what YOU would find most useful for me to put up here.  At this stage, I’d aim to have it live by Wednesday, about the time I’ve scheduled my next article to be finished (Top 10 Things to Remember when Times Get Tough)

Weekends, I’m not going to be pushing the 4.30am starts, I’ll just be working to make sure I get my priority actions done, although I do intend to have one day off a week (even the Christian God took the 7th day!).  Weekdays, though, I’ll definitely be putting it at the top of the list. So far, so good.  I’m planning on an afternoon nap today so I can get up early again tomorrow, which is Monday down here…

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