Are You Chasing Your Dreams Away?

iStock_000002259698XSmall- There’s a wonderful story I read once, about an American Businessman who went on a holiday to Mexico.  He stood at the pier of a small coastal village in Mexico, when a small boat carrying a lone Mexican fisherman docked. Inside the small boat were several large yellowfin tuna. The American complimented the Mexican on the quality of his fish and asked how long it took to catch them. The fisherman replied, “Only a little while.”

The American then asked, “If it took only a little while to catch these fine fish, why didn’t you stay out longer and catch more fish?” The fisherman explained that this catch was enough to support his family’s immediate needs.

The American then asked, “But what do you do with the rest of your time?”

The fisherman replied, “I sleep late, fish a little, play with my children, take a siesta with my wife, and stroll into the village each evening, where I sip wine and play guitar with my amigos. I have a full and busy life, señor.”

The American scoffed, “I am a Harvard MBA and could help you. You should spend more time fishing and with the proceeds buy a bigger boat. With the proceeds from the bigger boat you could buy several boats. Eventually, you would have a fleet of fishing boats. Instead of selling your catch to a middleman you would sell directly to the processor, eventually opening your own cannery. You would control the product, processing, and distribution. You would need to leave this small coastal fishing village and move to Mexico City, then L.A., and eventually New York City, where you would run your expanding enterprise.”

The fisherman asked, “But señor, how long will this all take?”

The American replied, “Fifteen to twenty years.”

“But what then, señor?” inquired the Mexican. The American laughed and said, “That’s the best part. When the time is right, you would announce an IPO and sell your company stock to the public and become very rich. You would make millions.”

“Millions, señor? Then what?” asked the Mexican.

The American said, “Why, then you would retire, of course—move to a small coastal fishing village where you could sleep late, fish a little, play with your kids, take a siesta with your wife, and stroll into the village in the evenings, where you could sip wine and play your guitar with your amigos.”

I realised yesterday that, like the plan outlined by the businessman, in spending all my weekends chasing my dreams of time freedom, I was throwing away the free time I already had.  I’m not like the fisherman, already living the ideal lifestyle (although I note that he didn’t have to have millions to do it, either), but I’ve been spending the very coins that I’ve been working so hard to get.

I know several religions prescribe a weekly day of rest.  I also know that not many of us follow this tradition any more – and it seems to me that the more we rush, the more rushed we get.  Maybe it’s time to start kicking back and choosing to have some time that we don’t cram full of “have to do” things – but fill with the things we want and love to do, and let the wider world get by without us for a day.  Maybe, just maybe, by appreciating and savouring that free time, the message will go out to whatever universal source you believe in that THIS is what we’d like to see more of in our lives.

Worth a try?

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  • Jonathan David Goins July 23, 2009 at 1:25 am

    I had a revelation today that i need to be the best me i can be and that i have not spent my time following that advice. I have been the best programmer in my group, i have been the best QA analyst in my factory and I have been the best project manager in my company. yet none of these are me. and there is always someone better at these things that I am not truly, that do not truly re present me. Do what you are.

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  • Usman Malik July 20, 2009 at 1:23 am

    very good article
    although i should add something: if we all find something we really love, which we are really passionate about and spend the rest of our lives merchandising our passion. forexample, i am an artist and i love to draw. i want to use this talent in a productive way so my goal has become to start my own clothing line which will have my art printed on it. i am doing this more for the passion than for the money. i have been working to become somewhat established and this whole transition has been really fun, so much fun that ive forgotten when was the last time i was this happy in my life.
    everyone should find something they are passionate about and try to make a living out of it.

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